We are thrilled to announce the 2024 Bigs & Littles of the Year

Big John and Little James

In the world of Big Brothers Big Sisters, some matches are built through countless outings and conversations, while others form a natural connection from their very first meeting, demonstrating the unique bonds a Big and Little can create. Big John and Little James exemplify this kind of match.

John had considered becoming a Big Brother early in his career but only took the plunge after being inspired by a speech from CEO Beach Pace to an executive group he was part of. Beach highlighted the critical need for male mentors and the long waitlist of young boys, compelling John to join the program.

Since John entered James’ life, he has been a pillar of stability amidst times of inconsistency and change. James has grown into a more secure individual, benefiting from John’s guidance and fresh perspective outside his family. John has not only provided support, but has also become a cherished friend, enthusiastically sharing in James’ growth and interests.

John has gained insight into how James, who has autism, perceives and processes the world, finding joy in experiencing life from James’s perspective. Through this, John has assisted James with essential life lessons that have contributed to James finding his own independence and voice.

James reflects on his experience, saying,

“If I could tell kids anything about my experience, it’s that it’s awesome! You can do so many fun new things. Don’t be hesitant about joining BBBS—reaching out and building a support system can be incredibly rewarding.”

Their connection is a testament to the profound impact Big Brothers Big Sisters can have on not just the youth, but the adult also. As John himself puts it, “In James I have found a friend. Someone who I look forward to spending time with. I love his enthusiasm when he talks about the things he likes. I appreciate when he calls on me for help and support. I love my Little Brother James. He is the best Little Brother I could have asked for.”

Big Ash and Little Mahayla

When you ask people about Ash and Mahayla’s bond, they’ll highlight how their care, respect, and love shine through their mutual support and strong connection with one another. When they were first matched, 8-year-old Mahayla had already weathered more challenges than most kids her age. Her mother, Jamie, saw her daughter struggling in school and falling behind. Seeking guidance and support, she turned to Big Brothers Big Sisters Columbia NW to find a role model who could provide Mahayla with the support and mentorship she needed to thrive.

Ash and Mahayla’s bond was initially sparked by a shared love for animals and art. As they spent more time together, their connection deepened into a genuine friendship that would shape both their lives in profound ways.

Their adventures have varied from exhilarating snow tubing escapades on Mt. Hood to quieter moments of cookie decorating in the park during the pandemic. One of their favorite traditions is attending the Portland Pride Festival. Mahayla requested to attend the event and had so much fun they now eagerly anticipate it each year. Ash, who is also part of the LGBTQIA+ community, reminisced, “I hadn’t gone to the Pride Festival in years prior to 2022, but going with her has been rejuvenating and reminded me why visibility is so important, especially for youth who fall under the LGBTQIA+ rainbow.”

Ash has not only become a trusted friend to Mahayla, but also a pillar of support for Jamie, who saw firsthand the positive impact Ash had on her daughter.

“Ash has become a part of our family and an ally in my parenting,” Jamie shared. “They have touched my daughter’s heart by getting on her level and meeting her where she is at every step of the way.”

For Mahayla, having Ash in her life means more than just fun outings and celebrations. It means having someone who believes in her, who shows up consistently, and who inspires her to dream big. With Ash’s encouragement, Mahayla has gained the confidence to tackle life’s challenges head-on and to pursue her passions and ambitions with determination. And for Jamie, seeing her daughter blossom under Ash’s guidance has filled her heart with gratitude and hope for the bright future that awaits them.